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Today is a rough day. Mondays are always hard for me. Not only is it the first day of the week alone with my DS, but I also have the little girl I babysit as well. And she's always tough on Mondays...
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We did EVERYTHING last time. We eventually had to break down and see a reproductive endocrinologist and I firmly believe that without their help we wouldn't have ever had children. We conceived our DS...
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Maybe that is why you are struggling with these issues right now because the thought of it not happening again is weighing on your mind. Is there a possibility that you may be able to save up and take...
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Well, DH's work is reviewing insurance options now and they have had multiple employees request an infertility option, so we're hoping we may get infertility insurance again. I'm not counting on it,...
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I know it's hard, but I think you should try to put it out of your mind for now. It sounds like there are some possibilities so it's not like a definite no that it will never happen again. You never...
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Well, and also before this whole PPD thing happened, hubby and I had planned to have our babies back-to-back. We wanted them to be no more than 18 months apart. It's hard to let that go even though I...
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His alcohol use affects more than just him. Has he thought about seeking treatment? There are plenty of places that can help. Stef
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I doubt he's really thought about it, but who can blame him? Our society is not built for people to ask for help. It's constructed so that people are forced to live with their issues. His work might...
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So since Monday the IT's, which were pretty much gone, came back. They were milder than before to where I didn't feel like there was a chance I would lose control and act on them, but they were there,...
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I just went off on DH again about his drinking. He was doing SO WELL for a week and then drank ONE time and has slid downhill since. He's across the room from me on the couch crying right now and I...
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I'm glad you symptoms were a lot milder than last month. I really hope Dh gets some help for his drinking soon.
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DH didn't drink on Sunday. I know he was bored out of his mind. He has said before that he drinks out of boredom, but I think it's just an excuse. I mean, I get bored and I don't get hammered. One of...
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That is huge for him, making it through a whole day. It is a step in the right direction for him. Have you looked into freecycle in your area? It would be worth checking into a free double stroller....
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DH made it Sunday, Monday and Tuesday and then drank again tonight. He always seems surprised when I call him out. I think he honestly doesn't think he acts any differently when he's drunk. He really...
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I think it's pretty clear that he can't stop on his own. I think you need to keep encouraging him to seek help. It's too hard for you to have to take it on to try to get him to see the error of his...
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He will not be able to stop without help. He has to want the help or it won't do a bit of good. Your child will notice this as he gets older. He may not get violent now, but you can't guarantee that...
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So I poked and prodded DH to death this weekend about his drinking because I want the HONEST answer why he won't get help. Well, I finally got it out of him. He feels that because he works to support...
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Honey, the key word you need to remember is "YET"! I thought the same about my soon to be EX. His drinking was his business. He went down stairs in his "man space" and drank. Until he started drinking...
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missy - I'm hoping the "get worse before it gets better" is already in the past. He has never been an angry drunk. I can totally see why he likes to drink because he's a very happy drunk. My...
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